Pertunangan kecundang Khairul Fahmi-Jejariruncing

(Sumber: info dari forum.cari)

Beberapa hari menjelang perlawan penting bola sepak antara Malaysia dan singapura baru-baru ini sudah terdengar cerita kononya pasangan sejoli Khairul Fahmi dan tunangnya retak menanti belah. Kecemerlangan Khairul Fahmi yang mesra dipanggil apek sebagai penjaga gol Malaysia baru-baru ini juga hampir tenggelam bila orang ramai lebih tertumpu kepada kisah pertunangannya

Kurang pasti dimana salah silap dan kurangnya dalam hubungan mereka yang suatu ketika dulu diawal kegemilangan apek hampir setiap hari kisah apek dipaparkan didalam blog jejariruncing.blosgpot yang dikarang oleh insan kesayangannya itu elia. Dari beberapa sumber awal mengatakan apek berubah. Mula tunjuk belang menjadi playboy berkepit dengan perempuan seksi dan bertukar ganti perempuan. Ada juga sumber mengatakan apek mula tidak menghormati keluarga elia

Kita sebagai orang luar hanya mampu memberi tanggapan sendiri. hanya tuan empunya badan yang tahu kisah perjalanan cinta mereka yang sekarang boleh la disimpulkan sebagai tidak kesampaian

Lebih memburukkan keadaan adalah si kakak elia yg hmpir setiap masa mengeluarkan bermacam-macam kenyataan yang semestinya berpihak kepada keluarga sendiri. disini credit harus diberikan elia yang diam tidak membuat sebarang kenyataan

Beberapa petikan sy lampirkan disini bersama gambar untuk cuci-cuci mata

“And because of those kind of issues, the relationship between Elia (fiancee) and me started to get worse, Elia told me that she heard stories that I was going out with another woman and we were holding hands.

Besides that, a few pictures of other women was also spread through the internet, and even those women were linked to me. Problem is, I only know a few of those women, not all. One of them is Dahlia.

Dahlia is not my lover like what people have said. She is just a friend and she’s one of my friends from my village (in Kelantan). I’m even close with her family.
The relationship between Dahlia and I is not more than just brother and sister. Besides, she’s still in her teenage years.

Some did say that the woman that was with me in the picture was Dahlia. The actual thing is, the picture was taken during an interview with a journalist and the woman in the picture was a friend to the journalist. So, there is no such issue about intimate pictures with Dahlia or any women.

Besides that, another issue, issue where people say that I do not respect elderly, shouting and yelling at Elia’s mother. I cannot deny that I did talk to Elia’s mother, but not to the extend of shouting and yelling at her. It was just a discussion to solve problems I’ve been having with Elia.
A statement was made by Elia in her Facebook saying that I’ve yelled and shouted at her mother because I was mad with this issue.

Truth is, I still care for her. Our two year relationship had gotten us through a lot of things. It’s just that when things are getting worse, I need to make an ultimatum.
Now, after long thoughts and discussions with the family, I came to a decision where it could please everyone. I’ve called of our engagement.

I’m convinced that this is the right decision and I have talk to Elia about this. But, she doesn’t know whether she should take it or not. However, I’m certain that this is the best decision that could clear everyone’s name

Besides, our problem had been going on for quite a long time. Just that it was never brought out to the public as it only involves the two of us. But when it spread and went overboard, I had to do something about it.Many said that I’m becoming more egoistic with all the success that I’ve had. Well the fact is, I still have a long way to go. The journey for my career is just beginning. I’m still young. I still have a lot to learn before going through marriage

“Saya langsung tidak tahu dia mahu putuskan pertunangan kami. Saya hanya mengetahuinya melalui akhbar (Metro Ahad) hari ini (semalam). Dia tidak pernah cakap apa-apa mengenai keputusannya (putus tunang), tiba-tiba dia keluarkan kenyataan dalam akhbar membuatkan saya dan keluarga begitu terkejut,” kata Elia kepada wartawan Harian Metro.



Penjaga gol Malaysia, Khairul Fahmi Che Mat, 22 mengesahkan akan memulangkan cincin pertunangan melalui keluarga angkatnya mengikut adat melayu sekaligus memberikan tanda penamat hubungannya bersama bekas tunang, Aimie Harmelia Mohd Hashumi atau lebih dikenali sebagai Elia, 22

Terbaru dikatakan kes ini mendapat perhatian Tengku Mahkota Pahang untuk menenangkan Khairul Fahmi dan membantu dia lebih fokus kepada kariernya yang sedang meningkat naik

Kesimpulannya mereka ini msh muda. Jauh lg perjalanan. Dan diharap apa saja yg berlaku tidak menjejaskan karier apek kerana dia adalah orang harapan Negara. Benteng pertahanan bola sepak yang amat penting. Hargai la hidup ini sebaik mungkin sebelum anda mengambil keputusan yang melibatkan masa depan kerana tersalah langkah tidak ada pusingan U untuk kembali.

INFO
NAME: Khairul Fahmi Che MatFROM: KelantanAGE: 22 yearsACHIEVEMENTS:1. 100Plus-FAM 2010 Best National Goalkeeper Award2. 100Plus-FAM 2010 Best Young National Player Award
# Started his football career when he joined Kelantan squad for President’s Cup squad (U-21) as a goalkeeper in 2006
# After five years playing for the President’s Cup squad, Khairul Fahmi then joins Kelantan squad to play for the Super League.
# In 2010, Khairul Fahmi was taken by Datuk K Rajagopal to play for the national squad that had won the AFF Suzuki Cup.
# When his career was on the top, Khairul Fahmi decided to get engaged with Elia on May 17.
# Not long after that, their relationship was by a lot of controversies
# Three days ago (July 29 2011). Khairul Fahmi decided to call of his engagement. – Harian Metro